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She is just setting herself up for marital discord.And if there is a divorce, she should know that his country, being Islamic, will not recognize her claim to the children unless she is Muslim.Asalamu alykum, I am a mother of 3, two boys and one girl and we live in Canada.I am aware that Muslim women are not allowed to marry anyone but a Muslim man.She should bear in mind, above all, that like it or not every marriage to a Muslim is affected by Islamic law, whatever the country of residence. Islam is not just a faith; it is a way of life that is governed by Islamic law.The Muslim is obligated to live by its values and requirements wherever he might live.Here are several practical suggestions one might offer to help her sort things out.She should first of all ask him if he has a wife back in his country--or elsewhere. She should also ask about his family: What will they expect of me (and of him)?
She shouldn't enter marriage with the idea that she will change things--or him; she won't.
On the contrary, it is only permissible for Muslim men to marry women from the people of the Book and not the other way round.
Hence, it is impermissible for a non-Muslim man to marry a Muslim woman.
Customs will vary from country to country but one thing is certain: any Muslim raised in a Muslim society is going to feel more or less obligated to order his marriage by Islamic law.
This is a primary fact that anyone considering marriage to a Muslim must keep in mind.